You are correct. You don't know me at all. However, you didn't let that dissuade you from making a few disparaging suppositions about me though and then follow up with reasons why I'm a failure based on your false suppositions. You have no idea about me. If you 'run' you won't ever find out either. So, if you're timid of men because you fear they are somehow emotionally damaged in their 40's...then you should just live in fear....cause most all men (and women for that matter) come with baggage at this age. But, please do go on and tell me more about me.