Pavane, I appreciate your civility and even being nice about delivering your continuous suppositions and your apology for hurting my feelings. I wonder, are you in the habit of apologizing for things that you’ve no real control over? Typically, this would make me second-guess a woman, because it indicates that she lacks self confidence in her own opinions and is likely afraid of offending someone because they’ve spoken a thought outloud. I’m really just illustrating that we all have our own issues. Give more people chances. Stop making so many suppositions. Find out the truth. Then you can make real connections. I’ve no mind to try and change your opinions and suppositions about me. If you are really interested as you say, in what I think, and why I’m bitter, simply read my own authored articles. People are complex. If you run every time you feel fear, you will miss out on so many good things. There are things far worse than bitterness, but run if you must! Lol. It’s up to you how you will proceed in this life.