Jeanette...really take a look at the very selective text you copied out of my response and ask yourself if what I said there deserved the response you gave. At no time did I say or even allude to the things that you accused me of. I'm sorry you're in so much pain that you have to lash out at people who actually try and empathize with the problem and try to create solutions. In the future, you might try asking yourself if what you are hearing is skewed by your anger, which I get. But, try directing at the people that deserve it. Good luck.